Dealing With the Frustration of Sickness and Disease

Ever lose a loved one to a sickness or disease? Did you, your friends, your family, and your church go to God while they were still living, beg Him to heal them completely, only to watch them become weaker, unaware of their surroundings, and finally, breathe their last breath? Did it shake your faith because you were holding on to the scriptures, “Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord: And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.” (James 5:14,15 KJV) You drove out of the hospital parking lot, brushing tears out of your eyes, and asking yourself, “Why did God let this happen? Didn’t I ask Him enough times? Didn’t we have enough faith when we prayed? Why did the one I love have to die while so many evil people still get to live?” Most often, when a loved one is lost to sickness or disease, our faith is tried in a God who made certain promises that don’t seem to apply to you, or the one you love.

Claiming God’s Promises

In all our quoting of scriptures and claiming of God’s promises, there is one we often forget; Hebrews 9:27, “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment.” It’s easy to push these words out of our mind and convince ourselves, “it just can’t apply in this situation, they are needed in this life!” Just a question here; if “God is no respecter of persons,” (Acts 10:34) and the one who dies while lying in a cardboard box just a few feet from a dirty curbside gutter, reeking of urine, with nobody standing over them in a warm, clean hospital room bed, and is loved by God just the same as our loved one, why do we think God is more obligated to heal our loved one while the neglected goes unattended to? I know why. It’s because we have unknowingly convinced ourselves that we can hold God hostage by our faith in His ability to heal. But He’s not! Nor is He held hostage by our anger and disappointment. We need to remember that God is sovereign, “supreme ruler, and supreme in power” and doesn’t have to answer to our faith, when He know’s better, i.e. “all things.” Sometimes “better” means allowing our loved ones to die, even when we don’t understand. “Our God is in the heavens, and He does as He wishes. (Psalm 115:3 NLT)” Just a thought, if God did heal every time we asked, at what point would our loved one die? Never! Because we will never stop loving them. Hello immortality!

God Always Gets the Glory When We Trust Him

I think it’s safe to say, the things that make us sick or diseased, were created by God Himself, not Satan. Ever think that in all your rebuking of the sickness or disease, you may actually be rebuking the will of God? When things happen to us that we don’t like, our first thought is to blame Satan. The Apostle Paul reminds us of some very powerful things concerning God, His abilities, and His will. “Christ existed before anything was created and is supreme over all creation, for through Him God created everything in the heavenly realms and on earth. He made the things we can see and the things we can’t see— such as thrones, kingdoms, rulers, and authorities in the unseen world. Everything was created through Him and for Him. He existed before anything else, and He holds all creation together. (Colossians 1:15-17 NLT)” If what Paul is telling us really is true, then He made whatever it is that caused your loved one to die! He even created Satan and his angels, “authorities in the unseen world” that you and I so conveniently blame!


Are you willing to continue to trust Him in the midst of your pain and questions? Are you willing to believe in all the other promises He’s made to you; such as, we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. What shall we say about such wonderful things as these? If God is for us, who can ever be against us? Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean He no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”) No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us. And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.” (Romans 8:28, 31, 35-38 NLT)

So… He created all things, for Himself and for His glory, and if you’ll continue to trust Him, He’ll unfold the beauty of the plan He has in mind, in His time. Don’t walk away before you see His plan revealed!

3 thoughts on “Dealing With the Frustration of Sickness and Disease

  1. Judy Himsl says:

    WOW! This is a truth about God that we don’t like to acknowledge… The Lord has put me on this journey of surrending to Him and although it’s sometimes painful, I wouldn’t trade it for anything! For so long, I thought God was punishing me for one thing or another. So grateful to be growing past that place and to know that the trials we go through are because of God’s mercy & great love. Thanks Mark, these blogs have ministered to me so much! Glory to God!

  2. Mary Duffek says:

    You’re articles is awesome. Thank you for sharing and it’s wonderfully written. Blessings!

  3. Anonymous says:

    Mmmmm …… VERY true but I do have a tough time believing God created disease & sickness when he came to earth to “Heal” every manner of sickness & disease. He also took his stripes for our sickness at the cross! We all have to die once though and guess it has to be of something, like my mom told me before she died. I trust in HIS SOVEREIGNTY and the most important thing is to always be ready! Even if we live to “meet Him in the air” I believe we will die for a split second to fulfill the scripture of appointment. Thanks, Bro. Mark for shedding more light on this as you know my story. Sis. Unz

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